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Ok so here we are. As from 22-06-09 these two happy faces here to the left got themselves married. Wait... what? they did what? Well yes. They actually did.
It wasn't always fun and games with us two. Shit hit the fan a couple of times. We went from financially well to almost broke, to the point of nearly loosing our house, back to financially well. Some time after that we broke up for a while and spent some time separated only to realize we couldn't be apart. So we talked things out and got back together again stronger than before. We have been hangin' out together for about 9 years now and have been engaged to be married the bigger part of our relationship. Now the time was right and we just went ahead and finalized it. WE are married. A few decisions were made prior to the wedding. No one was to know about it until it was done. Not even close friends and family (exept for moms and dads and all that). Why this decision you ask yourself.. A happy moment like this you want to share with friends and family right? Well yes and no. As we see things there are two moments to a marriage. The moment itself and the party that comes with it. The way we see it the moment itself should only be shared between the husband and the wife to be. No more, no less. It's their moment. Not the family's, not the friend's but theirs and theirs only. They don't need to prove to anyone but themselves that they love each other. The showing off and sharing the moment is not to happen when the signing gets done. So we kept it silent and small. Keeping it silent for close friends and most of the family was a hard thing to do. The main reason to do so? Well it's better to explain afterwards then telling people from the start and having them get mad for not being invited. Now if this is a good choice or not remains to be seen. And we might catch some flack for it but hey.. It's our choice. Not because we want to pass people over but because we want to properly share the right moment on the right time with the right people. There will be a party a big one. With this one friends and family will be involved to the maximum extend of the word involved. Everyone will be invited. Friends, family, friends of friends, collegues, people we hang out with, everyone. Most important of all this will be the moment that all and everyone will be able to have a toast on us and have a great time. We'll get back to you on this one. In the meantime... be happy and feel free to hatemail us ;) you know how to reach us. Greetings. The ones to the left |